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❤️ TO THE WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH IT… THIS IS FOR YOU. ❤️

And I’m not just saying this…I’m saying it because I’ve lived it too.I’ve lost my mum.I’ve lost friends.I’ve lost a man I thought would always be part of my life.And somewhere amongst all of that loss, heartbreak and change…I lost myself too.There have been times when I’ve wondered how life could possibly feel good again.Times when the pain felt like it had changed me forever.Times when I smiled on the outside while carrying things nobody else could see.Maybe you can relate.Maybe you’ve lost someone you loved.Maybe a relationship broke your heart.Maybe friendships have ended and left you questioning who you can trust.Maybe you’ve spent so long being strong for everyone else that you forgot how to be there for yourself.And perhaps, like me, you’ve reached a point where you’ve thought…“Who am I now?”But I’ve learnt something.Losing yourself doesn’t mean you’re gone forever.Sometimes life breaks you open in ways you never expected, and slowly, piece by piece, you begin to find your way back.The trauma may have changed you.The losses may have left scars.The heartbreak may have taken pieces of your heart.But none of it gets to decide how the rest of your story ends.Because there is still a woman inside you who wants to laugh until her stomach hurts.Who wants to make memories.Who wants to travel.Who wants to meet new people.Who wants genuine friendships.Who wants adventures.Who wants to feel excited about tomorrow.And most importantly…She wants to feel FREE. ❤️I’m learning that you don’t have to forget what happened to move forward.You can carry the memories of the people you’ve lost and still create a beautiful life.You can miss someone and still smile.You can have been hurt and still choose to love.You can have lost yourself and find yourself again.Because you get one life.Tomorrow is never promised.So I don’t want to spend mine looking backwards, wondering what could have been.I want to live.I want to make memories.I want to say yes more.I want to meet people who make me laugh.I want to surround myself with women who lift me up.I want to experience things I never thought I would.And if you’re reading this feeling like your best days are behind you…Please don’t believe that.Sometimes the strongest thing a woman can say is:“Yes, that happened to me. Yes, it hurt me. Yes, it changed me…but it will NOT be the end of me.”You can start again.You can smile again.You can laugh again.You can trust again.You can dream again.You can live again. 🌸Because somewhere between the tears, the heartbreak, the grief and the rebuilding…I realised something incredibly powerful.I didn’t lose myself forever.I was finding my way back to the woman I was always meant to become.And maybe you are too.✨ Your story isn’t over.There are still memories you haven’t made, places you haven’t been, people you haven’t met and moments that could change everything.Your happiest chapter could still be waiting for you. ❤️ ... See MoreSee Less

❤️ TO THE WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH IT… THIS IS FOR YOU. ❤️

And I’m not just saying this…

I’m saying it because I’ve lived it too.

I’ve lost my mum.
I’ve lost friends.
I’ve lost a man I thought would always be part of my life.
And somewhere amongst all of that loss, heartbreak and change…

I lost myself too.

There have been times when I’ve wondered how life could possibly feel good again.

Times when the pain felt like it had changed me forever.
Times when I smiled on the outside while carrying things nobody else could see.

Maybe you can relate.

Maybe you’ve lost someone you loved.
Maybe a relationship broke your heart.
Maybe friendships have ended and left you questioning who you can trust.
Maybe you’ve spent so long being strong for everyone else that you forgot how to be there for yourself.

And perhaps, like me, you’ve reached a point where you’ve thought…

“Who am I now?”

But I’ve learnt something.

Losing yourself doesn’t mean you’re gone forever.

Sometimes life breaks you open in ways you never expected, and slowly, piece by piece, you begin to find your way back.

The trauma may have changed you.
The losses may have left scars.
The heartbreak may have taken pieces of your heart.

But none of it gets to decide how the rest of your story ends.

Because there is still a woman inside you who wants to laugh until her stomach hurts.

Who wants to make memories.
Who wants to travel.
Who wants to meet new people.
Who wants genuine friendships.
Who wants adventures.
Who wants to feel excited about tomorrow.

And most importantly…

She wants to feel FREE. ❤️

I’m learning that you don’t have to forget what happened to move forward.

You can carry the memories of the people you’ve lost and still create a beautiful life.

You can miss someone and still smile.

You can have been hurt and still choose to love.

You can have lost yourself and find yourself again.

Because you get one life.

Tomorrow is never promised.

So I don’t want to spend mine looking backwards, wondering what could have been.

I want to live.

I want to make memories.
I want to say yes more.
I want to meet people who make me laugh.
I want to surround myself with women who lift me up.
I want to experience things I never thought I would.

And if you’re reading this feeling like your best days are behind you…

Please don’t believe that.

Sometimes the strongest thing a woman can say is:

“Yes, that happened to me. Yes, it hurt me. Yes, it changed me…

but it will NOT be the end of me.”

You can start again.
You can smile again.
You can laugh again.
You can trust again.
You can dream again.

You can live again. 🌸

Because somewhere between the tears, the heartbreak, the grief and the rebuilding…

I realised something incredibly powerful.

I didn’t lose myself forever.

I was finding my way back to the woman I was always meant to become.

And maybe you are too.

✨ Your story isn’t over.
There are still memories you haven’t made, places you haven’t been, people you haven’t met and moments that could change everything.

Your happiest chapter could still be waiting for you. ❤️

2 CommentsComment on Facebook

I can relate to all the things you have put in your story I'm so happy you have found your self again.☺️

What a nice mindset Respect you dear.✊❤

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